Sunday, March 25, 2012

Rocky Roads


At this point in our lives, the vast majority of us can agree that we can tell the difference between right and wrong.  We can all state with confidence that we can tell the difference between something that is good and something that is bad without much effort, however, a significantly smaller group of us can truthfully state with confidence that they always act on their knowledge. For example, we all know that it is better to eat an apple than a piece of cake, but when presented with the choice, cake tends to win the battle.  We all know that including that girl who does not have many friends is the right thing to do, but when the time comes to invite her into a conversation we tend to turn our backs and choose to ignore her endless attempts to contribute.  We all know that talking about a ‘friend’ of ours behind their backs will eventually damage their reputation, but nevertheless, when we hear stories of her less than angelic behavior, we feel the need to spread them like wildfire. My estimate is that more than 99% of us are guilty of all or some of these omissions of right and that 99.9% of us knew we were doing the wrong thing at the time and chose to do so anyway.
This unfortunate fact can typically be brushed off by convincing ourselves that, ‘hey, I’m only human,’ that ‘I am allowed to make mistakes,’ or that ‘I will try to do better next time.’  But the truth is these excuses for our actions are simply not satisfactory.
As Christians, we are called to always better ourselves and constantly try to live the way God intended.  Although, we are only human, and yes, we are allowed to make mistakes, repeating the same offense day in and day out is not okay.  We cannot go about our day wearing a cross necklace, a saints bracelet, and carrying around a bible in our backpacks, if we are going to constantly and consciously do the wrong things and make choices that are not conducive to a Christian environment.  The occasional slip is nothing to fret over, but when we spend six days a week doing the wrong things and only one doing the right, while simultaneously calling ourselves followers of Christ, we are not only disobeying God, but we are also being hypocritical.
We must truly make an attempt to live the way we think.  We must follow what we have been taught, and act upon what our conscience is telling us.  When we are confronted with a situation where we have the option to choose right over wrong, we can no longer choose to do wrong simply because it is easier at the time.  We can no longer put off doing right until that elusive tomorrow which never seems to arrive, and we can no longer ignore the effects of our actions.  The only way we will be able to achieve this goal, and make it past this roadblock we have encountered, is by practicing doing the right thing.  It is going to take a lot of effort, and it will most definitely involve some seemingly awkward situations, however with practice we will all become better at choosing to do right.  By consciously making the decision to do the right thing and by holding ourselves accountable when we do the wrong thing, eventually doing right will become second nature.  Through working to do good, we will all become better friends, better siblings, better children, better Christians, and over all better people.

    “learn right from wrong by practicing doing right” Hebrews 5:14

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Leveling the Roads


Balance. One simple word that captivates all that we as teenagers strive for but can never seem to attain.  The concept of balance seems to be so trivial and should, in theory, be easy to understand and live out, however, fining a happy medium between tests and teammates, clubs and community service, family and friends, proves to be one of the greatest challenges we face. 

Because of our hard working attitudes, determination to succeed, and our subconscious programming to never settle for anything less than perfection, we tend to focus too hard on the small things that we forget to look at the greater picture.  If we take a second to step back from our routine, and think about our lives, many of us will find that they are truly unbalanced.    

Whether we focus too much on how we are doing in school, or how we are going to make it to all of our after-school activities on time, or even how others think of us, we are all leading unbalanced lives.

Although it may not seem like a major issue at the moment – maybe you see no problem with spending countless hours obsessing over something that will most likely be insignificant in the grand scheme of life – it is something that eventually becomes a serious problem.  When we focus too much on one aspect of life, we forget about all of the others.  This leads to serious losses in various parts of our lives, especially our relationships. 

Unfortunately, our relationship with God is the first that typically goes.  Since we do not see God directly on a day-to-day basis, it can be easy for Him to get pushed into the recesses of our mind by all of the things that are taking over our lives and causing them to be unbalanced.

It is in the recesses that God sits and waits for us to not only realize that we are missing out on a major part of life, but also to pull Him out, dust Him off, and ask for His help.  No matter how swamped we may seem and how deep of a hole we have dug ourselves into with our unbalanced life, God is always there to throw us a rope and tow us out.  It is through Him that we can figure out a plan to get back on track and it is only with His guidance that we can live a balanced life. 

This balanced life is one that will elevate our stresses, allow us to remember the truly important things, and remind us not to sweat the small stuff.  We will find ourselves at such peace, that we will wonder why we ever chose to worry endlessly about such trivial events as we did days, months or years ago.  It will help us to live out God’s word, and be role models for those around us who have yet to call upon Him to help them sort out their priorities and even out their lives.  Ultimately, by leading a balanced life, there is nothing that will be able to hinder our relationships, our priorities, or our attitudes. 

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
"There is a time for everything, and a season for all activity under the heavens:
A time to be born and a time to heal,
A time to tear down and a time to build,
A time to week and a time o laugh,
A ime to mourn an a time to dance,
A time to scatter snoes and a time to gather them,
A time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing.
A time to search and a time to give up,
A time to keep and a time to throw away,
A time to tear and a time to mend,
A time to be silent and a time to speak,
A time to love and a time to hate,
A time for war and a time for peace."